Friday, November 30, 2007

The Jackson Clarion Ledger FINALLY gets something right!

WOW- this is an amazing article...and it completely represents my point of view.  Thank you to the Jackson media for giving a common sense approach to an amazing article about a town I am very proud to be from. 
 

November 22, 2007


Weir No. 1 in, oops!, 'Penthouse' magazine




Normally, if a national publication decides to write about Mississippi, people here start hunkering down.

"They never write anything good about this state," they say. "It's always negative."

"They" are "the media."

So this national magazine publishes an article titled "Country Strong - How Did the Tiny Town of Weir, Mississippi, Win Six High School Football State Championships and Produce Six NFL Players, Not to Mention a Major League Baseball All-Star and a Miss America?"

The story is not negative - unless it's negative to call a town of 500-600 people "tiny."

Unfortunately, at least for some supporters of the small but plucky town of Weir, the story is in Penthouse, a magazine whose slogan might be "Clothing/reading skills optional."

SI OF RELIEF

For many who buy the magazine, the articles that are squeezed in between the photos of Women Without Borders are like the bubble gum sold with baseball cards.

Somewhat beside the point.

On the other hand, a few hundred thousand people subscribe to Penthouse, and others buy it at newsstands. Some of those might buy it just to read about Weir. Afterward, they might think more highly of Mississippi.

Or at least think about it.

Over the past few years, Penthouse has tried to become more "mainstream" by running fewer articles about sex in favor of more about, for instance, sports.

It's not your grandfather's Penthouse. Not that Paw-Paw would buy it.

At any rate, none of this matters to some people.

Newspapers have reported that local officials were shocked-just-shocked to learn that the article ran in Penthouse.

They thought it was going to run in Sports Illustrated, which, of course, never publishes pictures of wanton women in unchaste poses.

Bloggers have called the article "disrespectful" and a "disgrace."

Someone suggested exacting compensation from the magazine and/or writer - a freelancer who sold it to Penthouse after SI turned it down.

As a member of "the media" and resident of this state, let me say: Give me a tiny break.

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First of all: A photographer from Penthouse comes to a thin but wiry town like Weir and no one knows it?

I'm shocked-just-shocked that a public official would imply that.

Also, what would the school be compensated for? Enduring all the attention drawn to its excellent football team? Facing the prospect that somebody may be inspired to move to, maybe even invest in, the town?

Anyone who feels shocked, disrespected or disgraced by the article, here's what you do: When a football scout tries to recruit some local talent he read about in Penthouse, run him out of town. If someone who read about you in Penthouse decides to open a restaurant there, tar and feather him. If someone moves to Choctaw County because he liked what he read in Penthouse, burn him in effigy.

I'll be shocked-just-shocked if you act otherwise.



--
Losing as an Astros/Mets fan is better than winning as a Yankees fan...or Braves fan...or Phillies fan, or Cardinals fan........

Thursday, November 29, 2007

Life in the time of bronchitis!

Well boys and girls...My Turkey day was ruined...and every day since has been a constant struggle to not throw my back out blowing my nose...p.s. My nose needs steroids (ala FloNAse) (insert *).... But my doctor wants to wait until I get rid of the "funk" to prescribe it for me. 
 
I've  barely been at work this week-  my boss thought I for sure had pneumonia...
 
But alas, I'm the 17th person at work to have "the crud"....
 
And yes, I have opinions about several things that happened this week-
 
1)  The Grand Ole Party did not disappoint in their debate last night-  I wasn't sure if I was at a revival or a political debate because the "jesus" count was astronomical...though I'm happy they admitted that Jesus would not support the death penalty.  And y'all think Jesus and I have nothing in common!
 
2)  Houston Nutt(job)....well, Good Luck Houston Nutt...Perhaps you can break the cycle of highly touted and successful coaches coming from national championship caliber schools only to fail miserably at Ole Miss (even with a Manning!).  In the end, I feel the quality players are going to go to State and we have Anthony Dixon for TWO MORE SEASONS to totally rock out....I think he could be the McFadden of the sleeper schools next year!
 
3) the New York Mets will play an exhibition game in Memphis on March 29, 2008 -  Clearly, I would love to see that!  Maybe I'll make a trip home.
 
4) #21-  While I was at home sick, I followed closely, the breaking news story of Sean Taylor who was slain in his Miami home on Sunday night.  He was a star Washington Redskins player- and while I am by no means a Redskins fan, I have to say that the players and coaches and administration have all been so classy, that my heart breaks for my local team.  Plus, as a football fan, it's a harsh reality that bad things happen to good people- even good players, even your FAVORITE player...so while tragic, it's a nice bit of perspective to stop and smell the roses and life live to the fullest- and for fans, cheer loudly for your team and favorite players- NEVER BOOO your team...(okay, well, you're allowed to boo Weebels and Yankees)
 

 

Monday, November 26, 2007

MSU beats Ole MISS>>> (AND YALE!!!)

Okay, so on the post- Egg Bowl victory HIGH....I think it's important to focus on why people REALLY go to college in the first place...NOT THAT BLEEDING MAROON AND WHITE WOULD BE LESS FUN IF WE WERE A DIVISION III, TRIPLE A school...okay, well, maybe it would be!  But at least there is evidence to suggest you can HAVE IT ALL as a MSU grad!
 
I've always said that I could not imagine having a better educational experience than I had at MSU-  small classes with professors who pushed and pushed you and made you cry at times and were there with hugs for you in the good times.  Plus, I would put the Con Convention class up against ANY CLASS AT ANY UNIVERSITY in the WORLD as far as difficulty, challenging, and general fabulousness (hence, the ONLY class I ever walked out of...followed by Dr. Duncan letting me cool off before he came to the student lounge and talked me back in to class)....Aside from that...this is interesting-  in American history, government, IR, and market economy- Mississippi State ranked 6th among the schools surveyed for the civic knowledge gained by its students. Ole Miss ranked 10th.
 
Now, I'm not saying that Yale is a horrible institution...LOL...I just think that it is really nice that there is evidence to support what I have believed all along- that people overlook MSU as a country bumpkin, engineering school...which is soooooooo not close to the truth....
 
Alas, I would love to have the "reputation" of Yale, GW, G'town, Harvard to help me....
 
November 26, 2007


Students get deal when Mississippi beats Yale in classroom




Few people would be surprised if the Mississippi State Bulldogs beat the Yale Bulldogs at football. They might take a closer look, however, if they learned that both of Mississippi's major state universities had defeated Yale in an academic competition.

That is exactly what happened when the Intercollegiate Studies Institute commissioned the University of Connecticut's Department of Public Policy to conduct a national survey of American college students in order to measure what students had learned during their undergraduate years on the subject of America's history and institutions.

In this competition, Mississippi State and Ole Miss routed Yale. In fact, both Mississippi schools placed in the top 10 out of 50 colleges surveyed. Yale placed second to last, along with most Ivy League peers concentrated in the lowest 12 slots. Harvard broke from the Ivy pack and ranked 17th out of the 50 colleges. This was a fair contest in which the better-performing schools won.

In fall 2005, ISI in conjunction with the University of Connecticut's Department of Public Policy conducted the first-ever scientific survey to measure what college students were learning in four subject areas: America's history, government, international relations, and market economy.

Researchers tested some 14,000 randomly selected students at 50 colleges nationwide. About half the students surveyed at each school were freshmen and about half were seniors.

By subtracting the average freshman score from the average senior score at each school, researchers were able to validly estimate how much knowledge of America's history and institutions the students had gained - or lost - during college.

Ole Miss and Mississippi State were not included in the 2005 testing, which was published last year. Yale was, however, and it did miserably - finishing in 44th place, with its seniors actually scoring 1.5 points lower than its freshmen.

In fall 2006, ISI conducted a second survey of 50 colleges. This time, Ole Miss and Mississippi State were included. The results were published last month, and both schools performed remarkably well in advancing their students' civic knowledge. Mississippi State seniors scored, on average, 8.36 points higher than Mississippi State freshman. Ole Miss seniors scored, on average, 7.45 points higher than Ole Miss freshman. Mississippi State ranked 6th among the schools surveyed for the civic knowledge gained by its students. Ole Miss ranked 10th.

This time, Yale ranked 49th, with its seniors scoring 3.09 points lower than freshmen.

The survey data show that the Mississippi schools provided their students with higher quality courses in the relevant subjects than Yale provided to its students.

Seniors at both Mississippi schools had taken slightly fewer civics courses than the survey-wide average (3.7 at Mississippi State and 3.9 at Ole Miss). But they gained more civic knowledge per course ( 2.25 points at Mississippi State and 1.9 at Ole Miss).

Americans who will never have any association with Yale or either of the Mississippi schools nonetheless have a stake in these results. Despite its poor performance in teaching students about America, Yale imposes great costs on American taxpayers. The Mississippi schools, by contrast, impose relatively modest costs. According to the College Board, the average freshman at Yale - which has an $18 billion tax-exempt endowment - receives $11,102 in government grants to help pay for his education. The average freshmen at Mississippi State and Ole Miss receive only $4,225 and $4,316 respectively.

More importantly, how we do at educating tomorrow's leaders about America's history and institutions will help determine how we do at maintaining our representative government. The survey asked students whether they had ever voted or participated in any of 12 other civic and political activities. The results revealed that seniors who increased their knowledge of America during college also were more likely to vote and participate in the public life of the nation.

In fact, the average senior in the survey reported engaging in 5.3 political and civic activities, while the average Ole Miss senior reported engaging in 6.6. That made Ole Miss No. 1 among the 50 colleges for its students' civic engagement.

Most of the college seniors did poorly on the test. On average, seniors across the 50 colleges scored only 54.2 percent questions correct. The typical senior failed the test mainly because students gained a trivial 3.8 percent of civic knowledge, on average, during the undergraduate experience. But Mississippi State and Ole Miss pulled this overall average gain in knowledge upward, while Yale pulled it downward.

And the evidence points to Mississippi State and Ole Miss offering more rigorous courses that better advance their students' knowledge of America's history, political thought, foreign relations, and market economy.


Dr. Gary Scott serves as Senior Research Fellow in Civic Literacy at the Intercollegiate Studies Institute.



Kurt schilling vs. Adam Carlson

It seems that the MSU heroics on Friday (coming from behind 14-0 in the 4th quarter) was aided by some crazy bloody sock again!
 
From Clarion Ledger:

But here's what the announced 51,727 at Scott Field didn't know: A right-footed kicker, Carlson's right big toe was bruised and bloodied, an injury produced when a teammate jumped on him in the celebration that ensued after Derek Pegues' game-tying, 75-yard punt return for a touchdown with 2:38 remaining.



When you think it can't be done...

Leave it to my BULLDOGS to embody "NEVER GIVE UP!"...
 
 
HEARTS!

Oh, and P.S. it OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOver for the Ole Mess Weebles coach...I think this proves that it doesn't matter if you are a coach from a winning tradition like Tennessee (Cutcliffe) or USC (OOOOOOO)....you just can't make champions out of brainless thugs...You have to have quality players and players with CHARACTER to be a winning team...Sorry Ole Miss...I know you hate us more than ever now...but as an institution, I think there has to be a change....
 
Fortunately, recruiting for state just got a LOT easier!!!!! 
 
A bowling' we go!
 
 

Tuesday, November 20, 2007

Oldie but goodie!

Whilst cleaning out my myspace blog, I found this...and thought it definately needed to be posted on my OFFICIAL blog! Mostly because it reminds me of happier baseball times...
From August 2006- right after I got back to DC from weir...

Why Mastercard is the official card of Major League Baseball...
Current mood: chipper Category: Friends

Preface: I have always loved baseball...fortunately, Bulldog loves baseball too...thus, aside from the usual time passers we always take on our little roadie trips (mad libs, trivia questions, and national journal articles- NERDS WE ARE)...the powers that be usually provides us with the most entertainment- meaning we almost never stay anywhere near on track...The following take on the mastercard commercials is a collaboration of ours in response to our colleagues saying "so, how was pHilly?" (with that- you were nuts to do that on a wednesday anyway...tell me how tired and miserable you are today PLEASE- look on their face). SORRY to disappoint.

Two tickets to see the Mets play in Philadelphia on a "school night" = $44
Stadium Parking, half a mile away = $10
A Phillies Fanatic stuffed toy for me and Phillies baseball for Bulldog = $23

Going thru rush hour in 3 east coast cities,
Seeing the "PHILADELPHIA 94 MILES" sign at Game Time (7:05pm),
Arriving in the 5th inning,
And approximately 50 minutes later, after the Phils shutout the Mets 3-0, Walking back to the car AFTER THE SHORTEST BASEBALL GAME OF THE YEAR (no joke, first pitch to last pitch took 2 hours and 3 minutes) = PRICELESS

Oh, and then in two different places between Philly and Baltimore, the Maryland Department of Transportation was nice enough to be doing major construction so that ONLY ONE LANE of traffic was flowing.

Time to Philly: 3 hours
Time from Philly (plus 45 minutes it took us to get actually out of the parking lot - roughly equivalent to the amount of time spent WATCHING the game): 4:45 hours
Total Baseball: 50 minutes.

MAKING FUN OF OURSELVES THE ENTIRE WAY HOME AND LAUGHING AT THE ABSURDITY OF IT ALL: PRICELESS

Monday, November 19, 2007

Holy Luis!

Well, I'm confident that this would have turned out GREAT for ONE of my teams- either the Astros or Mets-  And it looks like the METS have won....Soooo with that said...I plan on being a classless fan for AT LEAST one game next season (I have a cap of 5 games where I am uncharacteristically obnoxious- like when AROD hits a homerun)...GOOD RIDDENCE TOM GLAVINE.  I realize that just a few months ago, I wrote about how much I heart Tommy G...and how classy the Cubs fans were to him for win #300...but that was BEFORE he THREW the WORST GAME IN HISTORY as a MET...and that was before he showed the world he was just USING his time as a MET to jumpstart a happy ending for him in Atlanta.  Soooo GOOD BYE!  We don't NEED ANY ATLANTA BRAVES ON ANY OF MY TEAMS!
 
:-)  that being said-  It's hard enough knowing that ROGER CLEMENS HAS A 10 YEAR PERSONAL SERVICES CONTRACT WITH THE ASTROS.  Just anything but seeing him in a jersey ever again.
 
133 days until opening day!
 
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Losing as an Astros/Mets fan is better than winning as a Yankees fan...or Braves fan...or Phillies fan, or Cardinals fan........

OOPS- here is my Global Warming rant

If you are driving a HUMMER, anything bigger than an Explorer, or live where there is no recycling program, HERE IS AN EASY WAY TO HELP PREVENT GLOBAL WARMING- Please use energey efficient lights for your christmas tree...and energy efficient light bulbs ALL YEAR LONG. 
 
I heart Al Gore, but this has nothing to do with his crusade.  Somehow, I missed the PLANET EARTH episode about the South and North Pole...and last night, after my fabulous day with Yiannis (but EEEEK- do not watch HOME OF THE BRAVE- it's not nearly as great at the previews), I was letting my chinese food digest (note to self:  i'm 30..I can't eat spicy chinese food and then go straight to bed anymore) and thought Planet Earth would be a great, dreamy send off to la la land....until- I saw the cute little polar bears...and the cute penguins, and THEN THE DEATH AND DESTRUCTION LEFT BY THE MELTING ICE CAPS....I''m a pretty girly girl, and pretty emotional about the environment's demise and the effects on wildlife, but when that Polar bear couldn't kill a walrus and then died, I felt like I was at a funeral or something...as it flailed around trying to steady itself on MELTING ice to get a seal...just breaking my heart.  So, I've decided that I will NO LONGER buy lightbulbs that are NOT energy efficient...and that I will recycle BETTER than I am right now.  I can't fix AIDS in Africa, or the fighting in Chad or starvation in India...but I can do a little bit to help the environment! 
 
 

COBBLER QUEEN!!! Penthouse *GASP* and Global warming

First of all...thanks to MY DEAR OLD DAD for the greatest cobbler recipe in the world.  I filled Bulldog's tummy on Sunday with YUMMY PEACH COBBLER...next time, BREYER's ICE CREAM though- Haagen Daaz is just too fancy for good old southern peach cobbler...
 
GO JETS!  Beginner's luck...everytime Bulldog takes someone NEW to a JETS game, the JETS WIN...But how exciting to have 7 sacks...something to look forward to next year for the JETSIES!
 
Now...the continuing WEIR drama...Thankfully, the hard playing boys from WEIR won their first round play off game against Stringer (argh, bringing back high school memories) so everyone in Weir can stop worrying that this **GASP** Penthouse thing is going to destroy our team...and I'm sure as much as all the holy rollers and righteous people outside of Weir hoped this would be a distraction, it was a relief to hear that the BIG READ MACHINE put it to Stringer!  Also, I feel like I should point out that I support the 1st Amendment, and I feel that anyone who has a problem with the 1st amendment should probably find another country to live in.  I know MOST OF THE PEOPLE IN WEIR SURE SUPPORT THE 2nd AMENDMENT!  So, I fully support people's frustration with the awesome Penthouse article and their right to voice their opinion.  Voltaire once said something far more eloquent than the following quote, but it has been watered down so Americans (like me) can paraphrase it without destroying it "I disapprove of what you say, but I will defend to the death your right to say it. ..."  I have been thinking about this so much lately because I've been trying hard to wrap my mind around the correlation between an awesome article about a small town in Mississippi appearing in Penthouse (free lance writer) and words like Embarrassment, Sin, Joke, Lies, etc. I'm pleading ignorance because I just don't get it.   I think it is immoral to not use energy efficient light bulbs- I also think it is immoral to wave an American flag and not fully respect the rights of all Americans....
 
In the end, and I hope I don't have too many more posts about this because I'm quietly hoping that my small little town gets OVER itself and maybe deals with the other pressing issues in Weir instead of trying to "make a point".  AND for all the people in Weir who think this is such an embarrassment, just ask ANYONE  who doesn't live in Weir (or any of the small towns who just want to be MORE RIGHTEOUS than Weir)....I imagine that MOST (if not all) of the mentioned Class of 1995 who live outside of Weir now, thought the article was awesome.  I'm still asked for copies of it by my friends and colleagues here in DC...and around the country.  I mailed a copy to New York City and Los Angeles to former MSU students, and I'm going to scan it in for my blog shortly.  Anytime I hear "What a great town you come from " or "that is soooo awesome about your small town and your classmates- do you know those coaches?"....and I get to rave about Weir and how much I adore Coach Beard, Coach Gant, and MR. DONNIE-- Helleaux!  I already have opportunity to send out my ROY-O updates 160 days out of the year...but that goes without saying...I'm a happy camper!
 

Wednesday, November 14, 2007

the fallout in Weir continues!! Now, we're in the paper too!

Of course, none of y'all would know that the Choctaw County Dispatch is like 3 steps up from a high school paper- though it is adorable, it hardly shines up like an editorial wonderland....HOWEVER, since I was so excited last week about the amazing article about my hometown in Penthouse...I thought I should share with y'all just how close-minded my hometown really is...it's so sad....my personal view (which I'm sure is TERRORIZING my parents about my trip home for the holidays....though they should be calm b/c I like 99% of the people in Weir) is that people need to lighten up...Not one person has said to me that they bet I'm sooo embarassed, etc...there are no nudes, there is a great article on Cincinnati Bengals player Chad Johnson in the same issue as well...This is similar to how my mom was TERRIFIED that the world was going to end if I lived in a house with 2 guys when I was in college...and surprisingly, I'm still a good, upstanding member of society....I think people from Weir have more strength of character than many big cities...So, it's a shame that my very proud hometown is showing just how uptight they are...and HOW little faith they have in their stars as PEOPLE...
 
keep checking my blog for updates, as I'm sure I may HAVE A BLOGORIFIC CORONARY OVER THIS!
 

Story about Weir school in sex mag upsets locals

By Skip Descant
Dispatch Starkville Bureau
sdescant@cdispatch.com

ACKERMAN - Most small towns would relish the idea of appearing in a national magazine, for an article touting the community's sporting stars.

Until the article comes out in Penthouse magazine, an adult magazine filled with sexually explicit centerfolds.

Tempers rose among residents Monday night in downtown Ackerman as the Choctaw County School Board addressed a December issue of Penthouse magazine. The issue includes an article titled "Weir, Mississippi - How did this town produce six NFL players and a baseball All-Star?"

School officials and residents said they were under the impression the story - which is about the relatively large number of top athletes coming out of Weir Attendance Center, a small 500-student K-12 school - would run in Sports Illustrated, since the writer Merrell Noden, a freelancer from New York, told the district at the time he was a sports reporter with plans to sell the story to Sports Illustrated.

In the end, Sports Illustrated didn't buy the piece - it had already done a story on Weir - so Noden sold it to Penthouse.

"Sports Illustrated didn't want a secondary on Weir, so I shopped it to Penthouse, mainly because I have a good friend who's the sports editor there," wrote Noden in a Nov. 9 memo to Joe Grant, the coach at WAS.

"The school board was as surprised and shocked as some of you, to learn that the article was printed in the Penthouse magazine," said Choctaw School Board President Pennie Brasher, speaking to a crowd of more than 100 people who had squeezed their way into the boardroom, while others waited in the hall.

School board unaware

"We had absolutely no knowledge of this and the visitation of the writer onto our campuses," she added. "While most of the article was complimentary of what Weir athletes had been able to accomplish, it certainly could have been published in many other publications that we as the Choctaw County School Board along with students, parents and teachers would be proud to display."

The school district, for its part assures that it was aware of Noden's visit to the campus as a sports writer and the district followed its usual procedures.

"No policy was broken," said CCD Superintendent Dr. Arlene Amos.

The board went on to note it has no legal recourse, since Noden was free to sell the story to any publication.

"Even though we feel it was unethical, it was not illegal," said Brasher, who added the board will soon explore setting stricter policies to better monitor media outlets and reporters interviewing students and teachers.

The board did not allow public comments from the some 100 members of the county in attendance.

But in Weir, a small town of about 600, the incident has sent shock waves through the community, with most people saying the story itself was well written, but they had problems with it being published in Penthouse.

'Accurate' but misplaced

"The story was accurate; it's just where it was placed," said resident Bill Taylor.

What has also got citizens upset are questions around how much school officials actually knew about the story and where it would eventually end up.

"Everyone at the Weir Cafe, everyone in the Ackerman High School office and many, many people throughout the county knew this summer that Penthouse magazine was in Weir doing a story," said Bob Mamrak, a teacher with the Choctaw County School District who teaches at the alternative school.

At least one parent in attendance at the meeting Monday night said she thought the bit about Penthouse was "all a joke."

"So y'all saying everybody knew back in August that this was going in Penthouse, but nobody says anything because this was all a joke," asked resident Larry Martin, clearly growing frustrated with the scene.

"Everyone knew that the photographer was from Penthouse," added Mamrak in a statement he circulated at the meeting. "People were making jokes this summer about the Penthouse photographer asking the coaches to pose nude."

Astros pitcher

Roy Oswalt, a former baseball player at Weir who's gone on to play for the Houston Astros said interviews often happen quickly, and whether they are conducted as the team is coming off the field or at practice, players simply do not pause to check reporter credentials.

"The reason they came to Weir is because of me," Oswalt told the growing crowd in the hallway of the Ackerman School District central office.

"They called me on the phone in Houston - I get called, and I do 100 interviews a year - and I come off the field and there may be 100 microphones in my face. That's just the way it is," said Oswalt, 30, a pitcher. "I don't ask them who they write for. I can't."

"This guy calls me on the phone and says, 'I work for Sports Illustrated. Can I do a story on Weir?' I said that's great, that's more exposure for Weir," recalled Oswalt.

"And do you question a man, when he says, 'I'm doing a sports article'?" said Oswalt.

'Weir will be Weir'

Residents say though this article - or more specially, its placement - has disrupted their town, Weir will see it through and not lose sight of continuing a tradition providing good academic and sports programs at Weir.

"Weir will be Weir," said Choctaw County resident Wayne Ingram, who graduated from Weir High and has grandchildren in the Choctaw County School District. "And without the leadership of those coaches that have given these boys at Weir, there's a lot of them that have gone on to finish high school and go to college, that likely would have not had it not been for those coaches."

In close-knit schools and communities like Weir, teachers often take a more parental role than they might in larger school districts, teaching students discipline, character and self-worth, said Ingram.

"They teach these kids how to grow up and be good people." he said.



Tuesday, November 13, 2007

My ENFP Personality Type

Okay, so in 6th grade, in college, and again in 2001....I've always scored as an ENFP-
 
disclaimer: I am NOT a horrible person or bad friend. ...though I do get bored easily....hmmmm...
 
Extraverted iNtuitive Feeling Perceiving
by Marina Margaret Heiss

Profile: ENFP
Revision: 3.0
Date of Revision: 25 Feb 2005

The following comes partially from the archetype, but mostly from my own dealings with ENFPs.]

General: ENFPs are both "idea"-people and "people"-people, who see everyone and everything as part of an often bizarre cosmic whole. They want to both help (at least, their own definition of "help") and be liked and admired by other people, on bo th an individual and a humanitarian level. They are interested in new ideas on principle, but ultimately discard most of them for one reason or another.

Social/Personal Relationships: ENFPs have a great deal of zany charm, which can ingratiate them to the more stodgy types in spite of their unconventionality. They are outgoing, fun, and genuinely like people. As SOs/mates they are warm, affectionate (l ots of PDA), and disconcertingly spontaneous. However, attention span in relationships can be short; ENFPs are easily intrigued and distracted by new friends and acquaintances, forgetting about the older ones for long stretches at a time. Less mature ENFPs may need to feel they are the center of attention all the time, to reassure them that everyone thinks they're a wonderful and fascinating person.

ENFPs often have strong, if unconvential, convictions on various issues related to their Cosmic View. They usually try to use their social skills and contacts to persuade people gently of the rightness of these views; his sometimes results in their negle cting their nearest and dearest while flitting around trying to save the world.
Work Environment: ENFPs are pleasant, easygoing, and usually fun to work with. They come up with great ideas, and are a major asset in brainstorming sessions. Followthrough tends to be a problem, however; they tend to get bored quickly, especially if a newer, more interesting project comes along. They also tend to be procrastinators, both about meeting hard deadlines and about performing any small, uninteresting tasks that they've been assigned. ENFPs are at their most useful when working in a group w ith a J or two to take up the slack.

ENFPs hate bureaucracy, both in principle and in practice; they will always make a point of launching one of their crusades against some aspect of it.

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Losing as an Astros/Mets fan is better than winning as a Yankees fan...or Braves fan...or Phillies fan, or Cardinals fan........

Let Freedom RING....

Ceramic Cowbells

Mississippi State OWNS Alabama...with just two games left (both SEC divisional rivals), my beloved "ordinarily loveable losers" Bulldogs have shocked EVEN ME...with a Defense that is undoubtedly one of the most exciting in the SEC.  Granted, I was at the LSU massacre (of MSU) on opening night....and watching the game from the friendly confines of Nellies Sports Bar on Saturday, I could NOT believe it was the same team.  And we are a YOUNG team...which means, this year is just the beginning of things to come!  It's so nice- even if we don't win another game (and I'm cognizant of that fact- even though we beat 2 ranked teams already- schedule schmedul)....it's NICE to have the SHOCK of a good, decent season...My teams let me down this year- Astros, Mets, and the pitiful Jetsies (and OK, bulldog wins this one- I will NOT make a pillow out of my Chad Pennington jersey- I will buy some fabulous shiny black Pjs and sleep in it)...and I was resigned to NOT caring about hte Bulldog's season this year- you know...just too hard for me to handle the heartbreak, and low and behold...
 
The bottom line is that WHEN EVERYTHING ELSE IS GOING SOUTH-  job making you crazy, seasonal mood syndrome not far off, and normal "staci stress"....sometimes it's just nice to be cleaning your flooded apartment for the 487th time and think "but, hey, we're the freaking champions"...It's just NICE to be able to rave about the team I have loved since birth....and for a school that has seen attendence spike by almost 6,000 since I was a student there a million moons ago, it's great exposure.  Soooooo GO STATE! 
 
And I bet the next time Nick Saban says "I'm not sure we could simulate cowbells, but it's all just noise." He added, "l don't remember the cowbells (when he took his LSU teams to)"  - he will want to kick himself....HEAR THEM NOW SABAN!?!?  And, as someone who used to have to assemble cowbell INSIDE the stadium...and as an accessory to cowbell hording in Rupp Arena in 1996 for the Sweet 16 bball game....It is still the MOST beautiful sound in the world to hear the cowbells proudly ringing...there is NOTHING sweeter in college football as far as I'm concerned....and I heart the MSU movement to invoke their 1st amendment right to ring their bell!
 
 

Thursday, November 8, 2007

Brad Lidgeless at last....

The BEST news thus far in the off season is that Brad Lidge (who I am sure is a fine person) can join a team that doesn't associate him with catastrophe!  Now, of course, I'm already worried that the "haunting of Brad Lidge" will continue in Philadelphia, and I'll have to continue to need a TUMS when he comes in to the game against the Mets as he might be free of his curse....and thus I will feel brad lidge'd again...ARGH!
 
In other news-  American Gangster-   might be the longest movie I have ever set thru....I was so restless during that movie that I wanted to scream...and it wasn't just my RLS! 
 
Soooooooo i'm on the hunt for the perfect Turkey Day....my Yiannis is heading home to Greece where he'll be killing people on the dancefloor....so I guess I'm not cooking a turkey this year (awww hearts for Kevin and Jenn last year!)....
 
My bulldogs need to win 2 of their last 3 games for a bowl bid....**CROSSES EVERYTHING**  GO STATE GO!!!!!!
 
I heart Rickey Cole and Jamie Franks- my two dem friends who came up short in the evil Mississippi elections on Tuesday.....I'm at least happy that I didn't give up another job to go down there and be unemployed! 
 
Weir, MS is featured in Penthouse this month-  Thankfully, Mary and Violaine went with me to Borders where I giggled the entire time I was looking for a table of contents (btw- in case you're wondering- Penthouse does have a table of contents!)....my little town-  if anyone ever wonders why I am the way I am, read the article that features my graduating class....I'm not exactly sure that anyone would ever suspsect Coach beard of appearing on a glossy mag page with Bengals player Chad Johnson, but hey-  LOVE IT!  Article is on page 66. 
 
A very evil person died yesterday-  but part of me wonders if this person NEVER lived or wasn't evil, would other people have turned out so wonderful...it's weird to think of one decision many years ago set off an entire chain reaction.    I know my sweetheart is very confliced today, so my thoughts are with him. ...  I guess it's kind of like working at ************ ******...if everything was tolerable and we weren't all afraid of the "WRATH" all the time, would we all be so close, unified in our fear!?!?!?  On the job front, things have to get better here...